THE TRADITIONAL WEDDING BUGISNESE
Bugisnese reside in the
1. Men family visit upon the woman family’s house to ask to its parent. What does him daughter
had the candidate or not yet ? if its answer not yet so performed a discussion among second
family
2. After performed a discussion men family visit upon to return the woman family’s house to
propose marriage to
3. In propose marriage for there must be discussion about dowry which request by woman
family, inclusive of also money to be given as well as in the form of staple
4. One week before event of bride prohibited to go out the house and its mother give the black
soft rice and egg braise the saucer that is as sign that he have been applied for
5. separate candidate bride and bridegroom of place before legalization of marriage
6. After one of its week so the nighttime is performed event of called “ Bersanji” and bride
candidate ordered for Alquran read of guided by its father
7. After the event finish is hence re-continued event called " Mabbedda” and Meppacci"
which " Mabbedda" its meaning is close relative from bride candidate give the felicitation
therewith present which is in the form of gift or invitation and give powder a few to face
bride and so also by " Mappacci" giving Henna to its palm, so further one by one
8. Its tomorrow morning is newly performed by legalization of marriage. Before legalization of
marriage of bridegroom candidate and its family squire called Serah-Serahan which Serah-
Serahan in it there must be slipper, some cosmetic, some underwear, towel, fruits and sheath
formed like bird which its bill placed a ring and all important is called " Sompah" what its
meaning is agreement land to be passed to bride after marrying
9. When the family of the bridegroom come squireing the Serah-Serahan,so the family of the
bride quickly fetch its arrival with the greeting in the form of drum music and kunfu
11. Second hereinafter bride and bridegroom descend to podium to meet all guest until have
lunched, afterwards all guest to the podium to give the felicitation and give the present in the
form of gift or invitation accompaniedly with music
12. Second afterwards bride and bridegroom step into the house return and change clothes
13. After changing clothes of bride and bridegroom go to men family’s house to meeting its
parent in law is so called " MEROLA", bride and bridegroom prohibited to walk but
carried on the back by its own family. After getting home second parent in law of bride and
bridegroom in interspersing rice of before entering house
14. In Merola there is which its name " MEMMETOA"the meaning is close relative from
bridegroom with one by one give the felicitation to bride and bridegroom and give the gift or
invitation
15. After event memmetoa finish, bride and bridegroom have to return home the family
woman before night. Bride and bridegroom change the clothes return and continue the event
party of about at
the house to change the free clothes and follow to join with in free night party or c
committee party
16. Tomorrow evening, re-performed a Bersanji and after finishing, all existing decoration is
at home opened. Re-Continued event of committee disbandment and afterwards opening
gift
17. In opening of gift and invitation there is matter which must be paid attention is all gift taken
by bride and bridegroom and allot it to all committee of while invitation divided into 2 phase
- First phase : Invitation in tradition Mabbedda, Mappacci
and Merola taken by bride and bridegroom
- Second phase : Invitation from all guest which is in
podium taken by mother from bride
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